We're each an individual. Wouldn't you agree? Just think about it. There is no one like you. As much as this is a compliment it also means that when someone needs help, there is no one size fits all. I mean, that doesn't make any sense. We all have unique minds, unique pathways through life, unique experiences as we see them through our own minds eye. As much as someone may be able to relate to you, nobody has had your experiences except you. This means we each create and view our problems uniquely, therefore, that's how they should be lifted and sculpted to the individual.
Smoking is no different than any other vise that we learn to cling to. We have some story. An event or series of events that led us to conclude that smoking fit very well into our lives and benefitted us. This is how habits become habits. Then, at some point, we don't like them anymore or they don't serve us. Someone needs to send the memo to your subconscious mind because as far as they're concerned, it's all good. And you can bet that the resistance is great because it has greatly benefitted you one way or another. You need a way to cut through all the bull and go straight to the source by passing the resistance. This is why replacing an old bad habit with a new one, doesn't work. It's not really getting to the core of the problem which lies somewhere way back in that mind of yours. It also further denigrates your identity and makes you feel worse about yourself, because you're not really tackling the issue. All of these cascading effects play a horrible trick within your mind and can deteriorate through many areas of your life and self worth by making your goal of quitting seem so hard. "I've tried everything!", you say with hopelessness, distraught at how you're going quit smoking for a third time and try to get motivated when your old you, smoker self, feels so comfortable like a glove. You've basically given up. You dread having to deal with cravings, weight gain, patches, weaning off, multiple sessions, learning, hoping, trying, praying. Well, back to square one. YOU are an individual and you need assistance that is for you and you only. Your mind is unique. This is what helps you do the wonderful things you do and this can include quitting smoking. For a discovery call to see how I can help. www.BrainTranceFormations.com
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